HAPPILY EVERAFTER

HAPPILY EVERAFTER

For as long as I can recall, I've had a picture of the way my life should play out. Life, of course, often has different ideas. That bright and beautiful picture we have can become more vibrant or perhaps become grayed and cracked with the waring of time. For me, I always pictured meeting "THE ONE", settling down, building a life and, well, you know the classic fairy tell ending...and living happily everafter.

However, as I grow older, I'm finding that so many of the friends I've held so dear for so long, also had the same vision of happily ever after, but, like me, are stopping to question is there such a thing as "THE ONE"? Is monogamy the way? Are relationships overrated? Is the grass greener on the other side of the fence or do they just use better fertilizer?

Is it all just smoke in mirrors? Is happiness just an illusion? Are we truly meant to be with one person for life? Is there possibly more than one "ONE" in our lives? I don't know. I don't know if happily ever after just exists in the movies and books. Some couples seem so very happy together, some seem miserable beyond human comprehension. Surely, there is a balance, a happy medium, of sorts?

Here's my confession: After nearly four years of being single, with the exception of a few relationships measures simply in months, I'm finding it difficult to live in the present moment. I am I trying to be content and allow love to blossom. The truth is, I'm lost and confused, and truly WANT to believe in happily ever after.